The Intimacy Style Decoder
Ever wonder why you can try so hard — and still feel like true intimacy keeps slipping through your fingers?
It’s not because you picked the wrong person. It’s not because you’re “bad at relationships.”
It’s because you’re likely speaking the wrong intimacy language.
Most people rely on surface-level signals — shared interests, chemistry, or Love Languages — only to end up frustrated when connection still feels off. What they don’t realize is that intimacy actually runs on four hidden styles, hardwired into your brain and nervous system.
👉 If you don’t know yours (or theirs), you’ll keep missing each other.
Inside The Intimacy Style Decoder you’ll uncover:
✅ PART 1: The four intimacy styles most people don’t even know exist and the science behind it (our brains are wired that way!)
✅ PART 2: Why Love Languages may not be enough — and how to use both love languages and intimacy styles to become a super-connector.
✅PART 3: Learn the subtle and instant signs that reveal anyone’s intimacy style in minutes.
✅PART 4: The exact words and actions that make anyone instantly open up to you based on your intimacy style and how to know when to keep going, back off, or change tactics.
✅PART 5: A 7-day challenge to rewire how you connect — at home, at work, and everywhere else.
✅ BONUS: A cheat sheet you can take anywhere with you that can help you quickly navigate any new social situation.
The Hidden Cost of Not Knowing This
Right now, you're probably:
- Exhausting yourself trying to connect in ways that don't match how others receive love
- Missing incredible people because you can't speak their intimacy language
- Feeling confused when your "perfect match" relationships fall flat
- Repeating the same connection patterns without understanding why they're not working
But here's what's possible: When you can speak all 4 intimacy languages, you become magnetically attractive to a much wider range of people. Not because you're manipulating them, but because you're finally meeting them where they actually are. The best thing is that you will also learn to activate every intimacy pathway in your brain to experience the intimacy you've been seeking.
